February 19, 2014
Had a transcendent experience this morning as I pondered over an event yesterday in a collaborative healing session with my craniosacral therapist. We were talking about energy exchange, and he told me of a Sitka Spruce tree anomalously growing in one of our local parks. It’s anomalous because it belongs in a rain forest, and our locale is not one of those. However, being near Seattle, we get out fair share of rain most years, and this park does include wetlands.
Steve (his name) told me I should visit the tree to feel its energy field. He then invited me to discern whether its energy was male or female.
I learned from Steve years ago that physical distance is no barrier to sensation, so I visited the tree remotely from the treatment room. I concluded that the tree’s energy was male. Steve told me that was interesting because he thought its energy was female.
Then (I know now) came the most amazing revelation. I told Steve that he perceived the tree’s energy as female because that’s what he needed it to be. Those were the right words, but I hadn’t yet perceived the spiritual reality.
And, this morning, the lightning struck: the energy of many things in God’s creation is fluid, flexible and responsive. It becomes whatever we need it to be.
The energy type, if you will, of many things is fixed, as well. My energy is predominantly male, because gender is an essential characteristic of my existence and identity. Therefore, if you need male energy and are willing to collaborate with me, I’m a great source.
However, there is an infinite pool of completely generic energy constantly available all around us. We need not attempt to draw female energy, for example, from an inherently male rock. In fact, all I need to do is identify the energy I need, and I can invite it into me with every breath, if I’m willing. See, e.g., Haanel, Part 20, paragraph 20.
Money, which we call currency and is simply a symbol of life energy, is energetically generic. It is whatever we need it to be. If I need money to be scarce or difficult, it is. On the other hand, if I need money to be abundant and free-flowing, it is that, as well.
The “trick” if you want to call it that, is to access your needs, your true needs. You can get a feel for these needs by looking carefully at your life as it now stands. Is money tight for you? Then that is (or, until recently, was) your need. Want a new reality? Change your needs.
My situation yesterday might illustrate. My wife had then been absent for a week, and, upon pondering Dr. Paul Zak’s TED talk about oxytocin, it struck me that I was manifesting symptoms of oxytocin deficiency. I’ve embedded that talk here for you.
I estimated that getting a massage might not only relieve tension, but it might prompt oxytocin release from human touch. That didn’t work. Part of the problem was a lack of connected touch, so no energetic circuit occurred. I left the massage disappointed, blaming myself and the apparent lack of skill and emotional availability of the masseuse.
I found out later by inspiration that I could have participated in a “touchless” energetic circuit if I’d been more aware of the possibilities. After all, there is an infinite supply of generic energy universally available. All I needed to do was create a demand or need.
I’m still a big fan of massage and personal touch, as some touch is essential to most of our health. Next time, I’ll go in with a clearer sense of my part in the circuit, and I’ll make sure to wait for a masseuse who better suits my needs.
In all this, I learned, even more importantly in the long term, that I had imagined and affirmed a bright future without really creating a need for it. That error essentially left me waiting for some mysterious force to “grant” me my future rather than effectively creating it from within.
A couple things about need may also be helpful. The need must be for your own good and for the good of people around you. It must not take anyone else’s good, and you must be willing to receive your “need” on proper exchange. As is popularly and pithily repeated, “There ain’t no free lunch.” Equally importantly, you get to pick whether receiving your “need” is hard or easy.
A couple good ways to start “paying” for your “lunch” are:
• Keep all your promises. You have to trust yourself, others need you to be trustworthy, and infinite supply is increasingly available only as you make your integrity more pleasing. I wrote a post about that. Your integrity becomes more pleasing as you carefully consider each promise and then keep it. It makes no difference to whom the promise was made. Might be yourself, your spouse, your family or your God. Keep all your promises.
• Make a conscious choice to control the flow of your life energy. The most fluid elements of that energy are time and money. If you don’t consciously choose control (until that habit becomes automatic), your time and money will randomly and haphazardly leak into the nearest sink. I use “sink” generically here to mean any place or thing into which energy flows and stays. Some of my “sinks” are video games, TV and entertainment. A goal without a plan is only a wish, and calendars and budgets (two weaknesses that are becoming strengths for me) are great tools for planning.
• Become aware of the needs of others. Give to every person you encounter, in some way, shape or form. Smiles are great gifts, as are random kindnesses. A sincere compliment is always well received, too. Money becomes no object when you become open to the possibilities. Are the best things in life free? Give those, abundantly.
• Welcome the abundance of others. Greet their gifts to you with a hearty, “Thank you.” Participate in the flow of giving and receiving.
My wife and I have created a need for schools for children which affirm their possibilities, preserve their curiosity, and reward their inherent passion. We also have a need for “schools” or programs for adults which allow them the same privileges. This need only becomes a demand, however, when I flesh out the detail so I have a firm idea of the intended structure and the amount of life energy needed to make it happen.
You already have in mind at least a vague idea of what you want your life to look like, feel like and be like. You may be making good progress, or you may find yourself foundering. You’ll gain ground on your dream as you add detail and create real need.
If you’re ready for this, I rejoice with you. I embrace and affirm the new reality you’re creating. I know you’re walking with me, and I welcome your company. After all, there’s an infinite supply of generic energy just waiting for us both to welcome it in.by